Sophisticated Erotica of Adoration

The book "Venus in Furs" by Leopold von Sacher-Masoch is an apotheoses of the sophisticated kind of eroticism known as Female Domination, or Mistress/slave intimate relationship. This kind of sensuality by some is considered "perverted", but it is very ancient and natural. Male serving his Lady of Heart is not a pitiful figure, the contrary- a hero making his sacrifice for the sake of love and existence, pushing the boundaries of pleasure and exploration, trying the limits of his devotion.It exercises mind, refreshes perceptions, lets out the darkest and deepest to become in peace with mind and senses. The very determination of a strong male to put a-priori weaker partner on pedestal is a lot to do with heathen adoration, closely related to the wise nature. An object of desire then becomes an object of an unconditioned, ultimately trusting love.
The men who do or would like to practice this expression of sensuality are successful, able, strong, and are nothing to do with megalomaniacs or power-obsessed personalities, weak and lacking of that firm male essence, which in combination with the less precise and more mysterious female sexual essence, make that ancient harmony.
Submission in front of tender but powerfully-spiritualised and almost sacred female sexuality, it's that grounded adoration which together with the leftovers of latent Oedipus complex that most men carry, make the fantasy appear. I find this type of erotic expression absolutely "normal", and even much more sophisticated and exciting.

Adora Swan- International Courtesan & Dominatrix